I'm Steph, and my boyfriend Archer (28M) and I have been together for ~3 years. I have always been submissive (though have been known to switch), and have introduced Archer to BDSM in all its glory. He's picked it up fast and is a very talented Dom, however he is not by nature very dominant and thus needs encouragement/exciting situations to get him in the mood to play with me in that way.
We've been attending events sporadically over the last few years and occasionally have a big play session at home. Lately we've found it fun and educational to involve others in our play sessions. I'm very much interested in trying some more public humiliation/play etc. at events, and also perhaps expanding our horizons in a more private setting.
So, I guess what we're primarily looking for is a female dominant or switch who would enjoy coming to events with us and/or playing in private. The playing could be anything from just her and I with Archer just watching to something with all three of us involved, whatever would be most comfortable for everybody. What I want is to experience serving somebody who really gets a lot of pleasure from dominating me, and for Archer to also have that experience from his perspective.
That said, making more platonic friends in the BDSM community would be amazing!
A little more about me; I've always been incredibly sexually open and willing to explore. Through a combination of this willingness to experiment and natural leanings, I've fostered my submissive tendencies through a range of situations to evolve them to where I am today. I hope to be able to develop and refine my tastes further.
I very much enjoy the psychological aspect of relinquishing control and serving. I especially love to be used, objectified, punished and humiliated. To achieve these feelings, I've enjoyed bondage, impact play (spanking, whips, canes, crops), nipple torture, orgasm denial, forced orgasms, forced/voluntary exhibitionism, slave play, very light **** play, golden showers, toilet training, and having my clothing/styling selected for me is always nice. As you may have seen in my pictures, lately we've discovered that we both like some little girl/paternal figure play, though not all the time.
Archer is a straight 28yo cis male, who is he most understanding and caring man I've ever met. He's been so open minded and happy to try whatever I express interest in. He's slowly starting to enjoy being a dominant more and more, but the process is slow (despite his raw talent) considering he doesn't have a natural tendency towards it.